{ keller on marriage } / apr 9. 2012
i was just reading an interview on tim keller’s book on marriage, and i was struck by this concept of how we define ‘freedom’ in society today versus how the definition of freedom is played out in the Bible. i love the example he gives, and i am so excited to read this book! here is a part of the interview:
One of the paradoxes you talk about is how the commitment of marriage actually produces freedom: the freedom to be truly ourselves, the freedom to be fully known, the freedom to be there in the future for those we love and who love us. Why do you believe that the commitment of marriage is viewed as largely anything but freeing today?
Our culture pits the two against each other. The culture says you have to be free from any obligation to really be free. The modern view of freedom is freedom from. It’s negative: freedom from any obligation, freedom from anybody telling me how I have to live my life. The biblical view is a richer view of freedom. It’s the freedom of—the freedom of joy, the freedom of realizing what I was designed to be.
If you don’t bind yourself to practice the piano for eight hours a day for ten years, you’ll never know the freedom of being able to sit down and express yourself through playing beautiful music. I don’t have that freedom. It’s very clear that to be able to do so is a freeing thing for people, with the diminishment of choice. And since freedom now is defined as all options, the power of choice, that’s freedom from. I don’t think ancient people saw these things as contradictions, but modern people do.
{if you’d like to read the whole interview from Christianity Today, click here}
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I was just telling my husband the other night that there is a special kind of freedom in marriage and I totally agree with what Keller says in this section of the book. The Lord is so good to give us this tangible gift of freedom.